Popular Funeral Songs

At Chapel Lane Memorial, we believe every life is unique, and a funeral should truly reflect that. Picking the right music for a service is a deeply personal way to honour someone and bring comfort during tough times.

For our Mother's funeral, my sister and I chose songs that meant something to our Mum but also reflected our feelings and emotions.

Our Entrance Music was the beautiful Secret Love - Doris Day. Calamity Jane was a favourite movie of our mums and she particularly loved this song.

We had two pieces of music for reflection - the 1st being The Sun Ain't Gonna Shine Anymore - The Walker Brothers. Our mum was a huge fan of The Walker Brothers in her teens and this song just seemed to fit. The 2nd song was chosen by my sister Angel - Sarah McLachlan. Personally, I had never heard of it but on listening to the lyrics I believe it summed up everything we were both feeling at the time.

We ended with Fly Me to The Moon - Frank Sinatra. A bit of an odd choice but it certainly lifted us at the end of the service. Our mum also chose this song for her dads (our Grandads) exit song at his funeral and so it came full circle.

So, those were my families selections. Whether you’re looking for traditional hymns, contemporary ballads, or uplifting classics, I hope this little guide that explores some of the most beloved funeral songs chosen by families across the United Kingdom can help.

• My Way – Frank Sinatra

  This 1969 classic remains the UK’s most requested funeral song, celebrating a life lived with conviction and independence.

• Time to Say Goodbye – Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman

  Originally released as “Con te partirò” in 1996, this operatic masterpiece combines Italian and English lyrics to create a powerful farewell.

• Over the Rainbow – Eva Cassidy

  Eva Cassidy’s 1992 rendition of this Wizard of Oz classic brought a hauntingly beautiful interpretation that has become a funeral staple.

• Abide with Me – Henry Francis Lyte

  Written in 1847, this hymn has been a cornerstone of British funerals for generations. Its plea for divine presence during life’s darkest hours provides spiritual reassurance.

• Angels – Robbie Williams

  Released in 1997, this pop ballad has become one of the UK’s most cherished funeral songs.

• Amazing Grace – John Newton

  This 18th-century hymn, penned by former slave trader turned abolitionist John Newton, carries themes of redemption and divine mercy. Its simple melody allows for powerful congregational singing, and its message of hope through faith has made it a funeral favourite across denominations. The hymn’s universal message of grace and forgiveness provides solace to believers and non-believers alike.

• Wind Beneath My Wings – Bette Midler

  Featured in the 1988 film Beaches, this emotional ballad expresses gratitude for someone who provided unwavering support.

• Unforgettable – Nat King Cole

  This 1951 jazz standard, later beautifully reimagined as a duet with daughter Natalie Cole, celebrates memories that endure beyond death.

  
  

• My Heart Will Go On – Celine Dion

  The 1997 Titanic theme has become synonymous with enduring love that survives separation.

  
  

• Supermarket Flowers – Ed Sheeran

  From Sheeran’s 2017 album Divide, this deeply personal tribute to his grandmother captures the intimate details of loss with raw honesty. Its contemporary lyrics about hospital visits and practical grief resonate with younger generations whilst maintaining universal emotional truth. The song has quickly become a modern funeral classic.

• Stand By Me – Ben E. King

  This 1961 soul classic’s message of steadfast friendship and support has made it a popular funeral choice.

  
  

• We’ll Meet Again – Vera Lynn

  Dame Vera Lynn’s 1939 recording became the voice of wartime separation and hope for reunion. Its nostalgic quality resonates particularly with older generations and veterans, whilst younger people appreciate its historical significance.

  
  

• Three Little Birds – Bob Marley

  Marley’s 1977 reggae classic spreads a message of reassurance that everything will be alright. Its cheerful melody and optimistic lyrics provide comfort through simplicity.

  
  

• Here Comes the Sun – The Beatles

  George Harrison’s 1969 composition welcomes renewal after darkness. Its gentle optimism and imagery of spring after winter provide hope for mourners. The song’s association with new beginnings makes it meaningful for those seeing death as transformation rather than ending.

Other popular songs include:

Bring Me Sunshine – Morecambe and Wise

Don’t Stop Believin’ – Journey

Songbird – Eva Cassidy / Fleetwood Mac

Knockin’ on Heaven’s Door – Bob Dylan / Guns N’ Roses

Lovely Day – Bill Withers

Dance with My Father – Luther Vandross

Simply the Best – Tina Turner

All Things Bright and Beautiful – Cecil Frances Alexander

Unchained Melody – The Righteous Brothers

Choosing music for a funeral is a personal choice that should mirror the life and personality of the person you're honouring. Here are some things to think about:

• Personal Connection: Did they have any favourite songs or artists? Playing music they loved can create a strong emotional connection.

• Spiritual Beliefs: Choose hymns for religious services or other songs for non-religious ceremonies, depending on their beliefs.

• Tone and Atmosphere: Think about whether you want the service to be mostly serious, more of a celebration, or a mix of both.

• Congregation Participation: Traditional hymns let everyone join in and sing, creating a sense of togetherness, while modern songs might be better for just listening.